tears

As I share with you

in your loss,

I'm especially remembering you

in prayer

and trusting you'll know the speccial love

and comfort that only

God can give.

thankful helps

Along the long journey through the grieving process it will get easier to be thanful. Gratitudes is the answer. It is wise to be thankful for what you had in your loved one rather than to be angry for what you have lost. We have gained much from them. Nothing will deplete those riches. Our earthly bodies will all meet again in the end of time. We tend to take inventory of the reasons we miss them and the list seems to grow. I have a long list of what I miss due to my son's absence. I also seem to beat myself up once in a while yet about guilt. I whish I had done better for him. I know he doesn't want me to feel that way because to be absent from the body is to be in the presence of the Lord if you are saved by Grace, through faith. I can just hear Jerry now saying all is well with my soul mom, love you!

sharing

Shared joy is always doubled but shared grief gives comfort and a moment of compassion. Seek the help necessary to make your journey easier. Loved ones, support groups, counselors, your church, and the main source your maker, they all give guidance that will be for your benefit. Don't try to brave it alone, that only prolongs the process. You will never be the same and life for you changes. Think on the love once shared, that, no one can ever take away. You will find others who have the heart aches too. Sometimes we get what we need quicker when it actually give it away to others. Give some hurting soul a hug, and here's one for you (xo.) Bless you all.