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Welcome to all the people in this world who have suffered, are suffering, or will suffer the excruciating pain of loss in their life. No one escapes this tradgety be it large or small or long ago or recently. Everyone gieves in a different way but the feeling is universal and causes tears, visable or not. Unresolved grief can cause lifetime scars that rebound the hurt feeling over and over again. Let's all get well enough to go on and be a survivor. There is hope in numbers. I will try to encourage you to hold on I have found the light, at the end of the tunnel of grieving. It is not as often, as long, or as debilitating as it once was for me now. I will return about once a week until I get another computer. Please be patient, thank you.
posted by diet dilemma magmem style @ 11:21 AM
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1 Comments:
I know deep sorrow as well. Additionally, I have worked with victims of crime for many years. I understand your need for privacy. I had to protect my son from a murderers' consciousness when this man killed his ex-wife who my former spouse was dating. My son's father wanted to take our boy to the funeral and I said, "No
This man will be jealous of you and want to hurt you. Who better to go after than your son? I will not allow this child to be exposed to this man's relatives at this event, or any other, so it can get back to him in prison." Luckily, my ex (who is a total idiot) listened to me for once. I think the possibilities of his own skin being at risk is really what did it.
I am sorry for your loss. Trauma perpetrated by one human being directly to another is the absolute worst trauma there is, and the death of a child at the hands of a criminal is unbearable.
There is nothing I can say to make it better. I can only validate you and think of you often in empathy and the deep connection of knowing.
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